trigger warning for abuse, body-shaming and homophobia .
soo im going to rant about my family [except my two grandmas, dad and other aunt], this is not a hate speech against my family. this is only for those who had these types of living with families/siblings in different countries
My mom.
my mom is a 38 year old, she is one of my close favourite family members when she doesnt do something illegal against me like showing some disgusting things on her face and showing pimples on her ass and that is very illegal to do that to their second child.
she called one of my online friends "pedophiles" while my online friends are just teens and any year younger/older than me on any social media i have [reddit and amino] and then she called out for my teacher and trying to cancel me from having a deviantart account and then saying that i claimed the art that i "made" but its someone else's art that i saved it on my laptop.
[trigger warning for abuse and homophobia!]
i found out that my mother has a pimple fetish and like i said earlier she does do something illegal against me like showing some disgusting things on her face and showing pimples on her ass and guess what....she totally uses me like i was a fucking mannequin and forcing me to wear shirts that are fenimine [im more of a baggy and comfy themed clothing person] WHAT KIND OF A SICK MOTHER DOING THAT TO A SECOND CHILD?! WHAT THE FUCK! she even also abused me on my face [i have acne that really bothers me cause im ugly af] when i came out as bisexual for a while, she was homophobic to me cause i like girls and even calling out for a teacher for being bisexual, im pansexual now cause i like everyone expect my family. my mother did trashtalking about my friend from school including me.
my sister.
for anyone who dont know that i have a sister, she is a sixteen year old sister, of course she likes drawing mythical creatures, playing games on roblox and talking with her online friends on discord. [im not gonna mention her discord and other usernames cause her username is fucking cringe and very quirky like bruh but its just my opinion!]
she does hates me when she said today that i called my mom "stupid" like no i keep it a secret for no reason. everyone in my bus just sees her as a nice sister but for me i see as a aggressive step-sister like came from fucking hell and sometimes a zoophile. i do like her in 20% but i do hate her in 50% and in the past i thought that she traced a popular furry artist and animator everlywolf cause i used to make hate art against my sister but nowadays i dont give a fucking shit about the past.
my aunt.
[trigger warning for body-shaming!]
my aunt is a very horrible person and she makes cruel jokes about my health including my sister.
they also manipulate me cause im always an fucking easy target to be manipulated with body-shaming, she always calls me fat and a pig. she said to my sister to kill herself including me, i called her fat cause she is a sick mennace and a horrible person in my family members.
thats all, if you agree me or not thats completely fine ^^
anyways have a good day/night/afternoon! :D
MchectorII
Thanks for sharing and don’t worry,it’s perfectly normal to rant so feel free to let it out whenever you feel like it.It must be terrible for you to live together with loved ones who treat you like that because you don’t deserve it at all.At least,there are still family members who you can count on for support.
From the first part,your mother seems like an overprotective parent although a little too much,I must admit.As for the second part,her actions are way overboard.I can’t imagine how uncomfortable it must be to go through something like that. Have you tried explaining about your situation to your mother regarding her fetish?If not,you can ask for help from your father or other relatives you can trust.You shouldn’t have to face this issue by yourself nor keep it to yourself and I’m sure at least someone in your family will understand.
As for your sister,although you have some past problems with her(which is perfectly normal for siblings),it sounds like you’ve put most of it behind you and you still love her somewhat.Maybe doing little kind and helpful gestures can help ease the tension between both of you.A simple smile or greeting and asking about her day can help too.Of course,it’s easier said than done so take your time.
Now for your aunt.Wow,she’s a real bully to you and even your family.Don’t worry,you’re not alone with this problem.I also had an aunt who said equally horrible things about my family like telling my uncle to beat my father up,cursing my sister to get violated and death upon my family.How we dealt with her was to first clarify any misunderstandings caused by her insane rumours followed by cutting her off from our lives and treating her like a escaped lunatic.Good thing,my relatives were mostly on our side and after a while,she basically disappeared from our lives.As your aunt is also against your family for some reason,you all can ‘unite’ against her and push her out of your lives if all she does is to say and do hurtful things to you all.Cut off all contact with her until she realises how childish (or insane) she sounds.If she shows up at your door,lock her out if you have to.
Even though your relationship with your family is somewhat strained,all of you do not deserve to be insulted or mistreated in any way.If anyone makes fun of your appearance,just keep being proud of who you are because you’re perfect the way you are and nothing can change that.I hope things get better for you and your family.Take care and stay strong!
ReimoDrawzStuffz
aww thanks about this!